Yes, "MOM.D. - At Last" is, at last, done. However, I thought I'd write one last morsel to answer, what are I'm sure, your burning questions.
Was there not a residency graduation ceremony?
After donning a cap and gown three or four (if you count kindergarten) times, there was no traditional graduation ceremony for residency. There was a cocktail reception for all the graduating family medicine residents in Omaha, but I didn't feel the need to drive back for that. I don't think I missed much. People are also surprised to hear that once all of the paperwork was done I received a lowly email (with the sender being "help@theabfm.org" right after the spam from Kohl's and right before my "Your Order has Shipped" notice) proclaiming that I was board certified:
Susan M Newman
4129 Cannon RD
Grand Island, NE 68803
Dear Doctor Newman:
Congratulations! We are pleased to inform you that you have successfully completed the necessary requirements for recognition as a Diplomate of the American Board of Family Medicine. You may obtain an official copy of your certification verification letter within your physician portfolio at www.theabfm.org.
... blah, blah, blah ...
Our best wishes for your continued success.
Most sincerely,
James C Puffer, M.D.
President and Chief Executive Officer
How did I celebrate retiring from my career as a student?
I took two weeks off. Naturally, your next question will be: what did you do with your two weeks? Intentionally, I didn't plan much. A year or so ago, we thought we'd go on a cruise or some relaxing vacay. Then we went through FPU and that chunk of change ended up going to the student loan black hole. I also didn't want to feel like I needed a vacation from my vacation right before I started my job, and there will plenty of time in the future that I'll need to "get away." Instead, my plan has been to lay around, hang out with my boys, and do some fun work around the new house.
What was my favorite memory?
I know it's boring, but the truth is that I don't have "a" favorite. There have been so many memorable moments, and some of the most memorable are not warm and fuzzy or hilariously funny. Do I choose between exposed brain; weird places I've had to pump (not gas); good, bad, or sad baby deliveries; nice thing patients have said; or on call stories?
If I had residency to do over again, what would I do differently?
As I've been approaching the end there have been several times when I wished I could go back and just do it all again. Not because I want to endure the long hours or humbling moments again, but I feel like I would get so much more out of anatomy, lectures, clerkships, rotations, patient encounters, calls, shelf/step/board exam studying, and "you-have-to-come-see-this" moments if I knew then what I know now. Go through it this time without the anxiety/pride-motivated goal of "just pass" or "next month will be better." I guess that's just the life lesson from here on out.
Will I see friends or family as patients?
The short answer is - Yes. There are some laws that say that I can't treat my immediate family or myself, but beyond the five of us it's pretty gray. I've always wanted to practice in a smaller town because I don't mind, and kind of enjoy, running into patients in the grocery store. (It keeps me honest in what I'm putting in my cart at the same time that I'm peeking what's in theirs.) My standard line is: "I'm happy to see you as long as it won't be weird for you. I'll treat you like, and tell you what I'd tell, any other patient. And, I really do value what 'confidential' means."
Are we done having kids?
I really think so. My boys are awesome! I love them to pieces. They don't come any better. I've really enjoyed every moment with each of them from positive pregnancy test to now as Griffin is kicking the wall. Still, I think I'll have enough of my fill of pregnancy-torn body, baby-bobble head, diapers, and terrible two's by the time they all hit school-age. Nothing has been made permanent yet, but I really do feel complete. We might get a dog though.
Will I still blog?
This is probably the most often asked and the most difficult to answer. I think "MOM.D." is done. I'm less confident about that answer than I am about being done with child-bearing, but I do think my blogging days are behind me. If nothing else, I'm at least going to take an extended break and regroup. This seems like a good and natural time to wrap it up. I'd hate to pull a Brett Favre and miss my chance to go out on top and instead stoop to some low level like having an uninteresting, unread blog or becoming a Minnesota Viking. It has been a ton of fun and really therapeutic, and I do have a passion for writing. It's one of those things that I enjoy, feel comes naturally, and maybe is my calling. Therefore, while I may be done blogging, I'm definitely not done writing. I just haven't quite figured out the next avenue. Maybe a book?
Thanks for reading!
Susan